About My Blog

Throughout my life, I have encountered various challenges that have tested my resilience and character. From a young age familial dynamics were fraught with hostility, as my parents exhibited a consistent lack of support and, in my mother's case, outright aversion towards me. Despite these adversities, I endeavored to forge my path independently. Regrettably, The familial discord persisted even after the passing of my father who to my surprise, remained largely unknown to his acquaintance as having a daughter. This estrangement compelled me to distance myself from my family, only to find that my external judgement and criticism awaited me. Navigating the outer world, I became a subject of unwarranted scrutiny my physical appearance, intelligence and suitability for romantic relationships. I found myself entangled with individual who exhibited erratic behavior's, leading to uncomfortable and potentially harmful situations. Professionally, I encountered challenges both within the workplace and educational settings. Instance of workplace harassment and personal attacks tested my resolve. Additionally, my pursuit of further education was met with bureaucratic mishaps resulting in a compromised learning environment and baseless accusations of aggression and uncooperativeness. Desite maintaining stability in my personal life and dedicating considerable time to maternal responsibilities, the recurring theme of adversity persisted. I presented seeking sympathy but with the intention of shedding light on a journey marked by resilience and a quest for understanding. In these experiences, my objective is to foster awareness and contribute to the discourse on overcoming adversities. If my story resonates with others facing similar challenges, I hope to impact insights that may aid in navigating and ultimately transcending such hardships. Scroll down to why this takes place in ones life and tips to help if you are going through this;